5 Erogenous Zones In Women, Men Should Know
As the dusk set in, they sat in the coffee shop sipping their well brewed coffee he touched her inner wrist lightly. Circling around it and looking into her eyes communicating his desire to touch her in many more ways. She felt tingles in her body and the need to be caressed more. That’s how the foreplay begins. Contrary to the belief it begins outside the bedroom. This goes without saying that we women admire men who are well groomed, well mannered and show compassion and care. This is the emotional factor. You cannot excite someone that much if the emotional angle is missing. It is all in the mind. The thoughts, the energies, the understanding. After that comes what is foreplay. It refers to the intimate and sexual activities preceding the sexual act. It builds up the anticipation and enhances the overall experience of both the partners involved. Or any number for that purpose. Lol. The female body holds a vast array of wonders waiting to be explored. Obviously the genitals- the vagina and the butt. The nipples, lips, mouth, clitoris. We know that upon stimulation they can produce a lot of pleasure. They are the “ Erogenous Zones” .
What is actually an erogenous zone? Well they are the areas of our body that are particularly very sensitive and produce sexual arousal when stimulated. These are found from head to toe. It varies from person to person. What turns one woman on may not produce a good effect on other. Just like some women like cunnilingus while some find it gross. Or maybe till they find someone who does it right.Then it is something we actually look forward to. Sometimes more than the actual act itself.Sounds exciting right!
So how do we know where to touch our partner to make her feel more aroused? What things work for her? Is it gentle touching, putting some pressure, some vibration( Like those in the vibration rings. That is heavenly. Undoubtedly) ,licking them or sucking onto them? It can also be all of them in any order you please. Switching up things make them fun and unpredictable.
Something that we already know is going to happen will not turn us on that much. It is still exciting though. Here we are going to reveal those areas which are not given that much importance just because some men don’t know about the effect that can have. These less explored but highly sensitive zones will blow your mind!
- Earlobes- Our ears have approximately 120 acupressure points making them quite sensitive to be touched. Gently suck on them and play around. If you are a good talker then go ahead talking dirty, whisper those things you want to do to them, those things that will make them writhe in desire and heat them up more. Bring up the things that used to make you both horny as hell while sexting. Feel them in real. Let your tongue and fingers do the magic as your words increase their sexual energy.
2. Perineum- For those who are new to this word, it is the small area that connects the vulva and the anus. Yes exactly what we miss because we are occupied with the vagina and the butt hole that we hardly try exploring it. It is a delicate area with lots of nerve endings making it a potential erogenous zone. Varying from brushing it giving it the soft touch before your tongue acts on it is ought to drive a woman crazy. She will be aching with need while you wander between her vagina and her anus teasing her. For good tongue action, start slow and increase your flicks gradually. A few gentle strokes in the right spot will get her into a full on pleasure frenzy!
3. Hair and scalp- Our scalp is full of nerve ending making the slightest tingle send waves of anticipation. Exactly why the smooches feel more passionate when the male partner runs his fingers through out hair. It makes us pull in deeper and arch with need. Leaving the rest for you to visualize.
So the question is how to turn on your partner without being too rough there? Go for gentle tugging on the hair during the sexy time and rubbing your fingers behind the ears just above the neck creates ample amount of ecstasy. It is not the same as pulling her hair in the heat of the moment and ascertaining your dominance. We love that as well. A dominating man is super sexy. Some women prefer to be dominating while men like to be submissive few times as well. Explore and find out what works for you. Simple!
4. Underside of Breasts- We all know that massaging the breast in the right manner makes the woman aroused. Men usually go ahead with grabbing the boob and pinching the nipples, sucking them etcetera. It shows the lust and makes us feel desired but feeling the hands rub near the area under the breast is no less a thrilling experience. Gentle touching it, caressing it or letting your tongue explore the area resisting the boobs will have your lady craving for you. We totally understand your obsession with boobs but trust me on this.
5. Inner thighs- This is yet another area where women like to be touched. Oh! There is nothing like having your man between your legs exploring your thighs with his hands and mouth while his eyes instruct you to stay steady. Being extremely close to the genitals, they are underrated pleasure points. Run your fingertips down slowly making you way inwards. A few wet kisses will turn her hot even before you touch her genitals.
We cannot stress this enough- Communication is the key. Asking and showing what you enjoy will guarantee a good steamy session. For the ladies out here, here is a tip-Don’t expect your partner to know everything you like in bed. Guide him, be honest and relax. Nobody gets and orgasm if you’re thinking too much and not actually enjoying the process. Sex is fun, enjoyable and brings us closer. Not to forget the endorphins that have us smiling and feeling good about ourselves. Now that you know about these, remember to explore in your next shaking of the sheets!
