Bare, Bald or Trimmed!

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I stand before the mirror, as I am on cloud nine, and nervousness and excitement dances in my chest. It’s going to be our first encounter, and tonight is the night I have been eagerly waiting. He is the guy who has occupied my every thought for months now and I want everything to be just right. I am planning for every detail meticulously, as with steady hands, I apply the warm wax and focus on each strip with precision. There is a slight sting as I peel it away, but it’s nothing compared to what I am going to experience at night. I survey myself in the mirror for the night that is going to be irresistible now.

Finally he arrives, and as soon as I open the door he lends a tender kiss on my lips. Our lips meet, transferring all the heat and passion creating an undeniable magnetic pull.

After a while, he starts coursing his hands on my body going lower and lower with a playful smirk gracing his lips.

“Well, well. Someone has been preparing.” He murmurs and his voice sends shivers down the spine.

I feel the heat rush to my cheeks bringing a rosy hue.

“I just wanted everything to be perfect.” I say as he continues to caress down there with his touch sending electricity through me.

“You are perfect. But I must say, you’ve left me quite eager to explore.” He whispers leaning over me and giving a bite on my ears.

His breath is warm against my ear and his teasing sparks a fire within me.

There is a desire that is burning brighter with every passing moment. We tumble on the bed, and our laughter mingles with the sounds of our pleasure.

His hands are gliding over my body like a gentle breeze stirring the surface of a lake.

He goes ahead and starts peeling away the layers of my clothing. I can feel a rush of vulnerability, as the fabric on my body starts to slip away, revealing every curve and contour of my body. He finally comes to the end and with every piece of clothing that leaves my body, it’s as if there is a raw connection forming.

His touch is tender and electrifying, igniting fire inside me, awakening almost every nerve ending that can take me to the journey of remarkable bliss. The exquisite pleasure of his fingertips against my skin is making me feel more alive, and more radiant. His eyes on my body are filled with desire as his touch promises a world of passion and ecstacy. We meld together, with our bodies completely pressed against each other as I know deep within my soul that the night itself will resonate with me for eternity.

In his arms, the sensations and emotions are just something else and I lose myself in the moment.

Then I move ahead and eagerly remove his clothes with anticipation of the night pulsing within my veins. I slowly start to undo its buttons and pull the zipper down, drawing me deeper into the spell of my intimacy until…

His jeans fall down to the floor, and my heart sinks at the sight in front of me.

There before me lies a dense thicket of pubes, completely opposite to mine. I had hoped for a smooth and groomed look, but seeing that, disappointment gnaws at me.

I try to mask my reaction as I try to push aside the sudden wave of unease that washes over me.

But no matter what I do, I can’t deny the flicker of disappointment that tugs at my heartstrings.

In that moment, I felt a rift forming between us and there was a difference threatening to widen with every passing second.

It’s not the guy who I have known for months. How can he not prioritize our night just as much as I did?

Obviously it’s not just about pubes, it’s about the expectations that are unmet.

But I still force a smile.

I know it’s shallow, perhaps even unfair, to let something so trivial come between us. But try as I might, I can’t shake that feeling of sadness looking at the jungle in front of my eyes.

I brush aside the fleeting doubts trying to focus instead on the exquisite sensation of his skin against mine.

I sit down on my knees taking his dick into my mouth, and as I push my tongue inside, I’m suddenly met with the obstacle.

I almost feel like cursing as the dense hair tickles and irritates me, sending a jolt of annoyance coursing through my veins.

I did the job at hand, ignoring the hair but as soon as his dick fully entered my mouth, I couldn’t ignore the hair. His hair is almost touching my lips, and as much as he is enjoying it, I can’t.

He is almost doubled in size, while I am unable to reach even a little bit of wetness.

It’s getting unbearable and frustration bubbles up inside me, threatening to spill over like a pot boiling over on the stove.

In the end, I soldier on, determined to salvage what little remains of our night together. He places his dick on me, and gets inside my hole with his full power. If it was something as per my expectations, I would have been dripping wet by now, like a waterfall.

But as he thrusts inside, it pricks me once again. I try to focus on the warmth of his cock inside my pussy, but the sharp prickling sensation hitting my waist jolts through my body, shattering the fragile illusion of pleasure.

His pubic hair, coarse and unkempt, pokes and prods at me, leaving me feeling unsatisfied and unfulfilled.

It’s not going to be a good night. I say to myself as with each thrust and each movement, the sensation grows more pronounced even, until it’s all I can think about.

He pulls his dick out, and we reach the end of our night together, as he has come already. But I couldn’t let myself get to the climax.

I can’t help but feel a pang of dissatisfaction, as I had prepared a lot for this night, aching for pleasure. But in these moments… it all got ruined.

He left, and I lay there in the aftermath, but my own thoughts consumed me, giving me a reminder that sometimes, even the strongest connections can be undone by the smallest of things.

I loved him, at least I thought so, but it shattered in just a few hours.

I can’t help but find it intriguing how societal norms and gender expectations shape our behaviors and it’s no secret that for many women, the choice to remove pubic hair has been associated with thousands of factors. From a desire for increased sexual pleasure to a sense of hygiene and aesthetic preference, women face it all.

A research study has shown correlations between pubic hair removal and a greater interest in sex, exploration of various sexual activities like vaginal fingering and clitoral stimulation, so why is it a no go for men in our society?

Why don’t they think about the grooming of pubic hair?

Despite these potential benefits and associations, the practice of pubic hair removal remains less common among men.

Maybe it’s a matter of societal conditioning, where men are less pressured to conform to certain standards of grooming compared to their female counterparts?

Or perhaps it’s a reflection of different cultural attitudes towards body hair and masculinity?

But whatever it is, it is disgusting to me.

Atleast.

It takes away from the pleasure of good sex, and a good blow job.

How can I give my partner the blow job when all I have is his hair hitting my face.

It’s a notion that piques my curiosity.

It is prompting me to ponder and contemplate the intricacies of pubic hair grooming.

So let’s just think about it more and let me defend myself on why you should groom your pubic hair?

Imagine… You are in the heat of the moment, things are getting steamy, and you’re about to have sex for the first or even zillionth time with your partner, but as the clothes come off and you catch a glimpse of what lies beneath, you are met with a sight that could rival the Amazon rainforest.

Disgusting, no?

Now, don’t get me wrong.

I am all for embracing natural beauty and being confident in your own skin.

But let’s be real here.

When it comes to pubic hair, less is often more.

There is nothing quite as disconcerting as coming face to face with a wild tangle of hair when you are expecting smooth sailing down below.

Sure, some might argue that a little bit of hair adds a touch of rugged charm.

It sure can.

But only a little bit, and not a bush that can hide families.

There is a fine line between rugged and downright unruly.

And trust me, nobody wants to get lost in the wilderness when they are trying to navigate the delicate passion of night.

So here is the deal boys!

If you want to up your game in the bedroom, it’s time to grab that razor and trim those hedges.

I am talking about a clean shave or at the very least, a neat trim. After all, nobody wants to be picking hairs out of their teeth while they give you the blow job.

And don’t worry, I know that shaving down there can be a daunting task. I know you may feel like you are navigating a minefield with a blindfold on, and you may feel like you can have unfortunate accidents in the danger zone.

But you can save yourself from all that.

First things first, invest in some quality grooming tools.

Also, a manscaping kit can be of great help.

And always remember, that this isn’t a race to see who can get the quickest shave.

Take your time, go slow, and for the love of God, be gentle.

Now, I know what you’re thinking: “But won’t it itch like crazy when it grows back?”

It will.

But use coconut oil, as it will not only leave your skin feeling silky smooth, but it will also help soothe any pesky razor burn and prevent those dreaded ingrown hairs from making an appearance.

And you know what the little grooming action downstairs boosts your confidence and makes you feel like a million bucks. Moreover it sends a clear message to your partner that you care about their comfort and pleasure. And trust me, there is nothing sexier than a guy who is willing to go the extra mile to ensure a good sex for his partner.

So boys when you gear up for the sex session with your partner, remember the golden rule.

No pubes!

Your partner… and your love life… will thank you tremendously for it.

As I plead with boys for pubic hair maintenance, I can’t emphasize enough about the undeniable benefits it brings not only to sex life but also to overall hygiene and well-being.

Pubic hair, much like any other type of hair on our bodies, can become a breeding ground for all sorts of unwelcome dirty guests. We are talking bacteria, sweat, and God knows what else can lurk in the depths of that dense thicket.

And while a little bit of natural odor is par for the course when it comes to the human body, nobody wants to be hit with a blast of peculiar smell when they are trying to come close. By trimming or shaving your pubic hair, you are not only reducing the likelihood of unpleasant odors but also making it easier to maintain proper hygiene.

Obviously without a dense forest of hair blocking the way, it’s much easier to keep things tidy and free from any unwanted debris. Plus, a smooth surface is less likely to trap sweat and bacteria, which means you can say goodbye to any pesky itching or irritation.

And if you are still feeling a little unsure about how to approach the trimming and shaving of pubes, don’t be afraid to do a little research. There are plenty of helpful resources out there, from grooming tutorials to expert advice on how to achieve the perfect trim.

Now for girls, I get it that pubic hair removal can be a touchy subject for some women.

After all, we’ve been conditioned to believe for centuries that our natural state is somehow less desirable, less attractive.

But let me be clear… There is nothing wrong with a little grooming action down below, and in fact, it can be a game-changer when it comes to both hygiene and intimacy.

So maybe it’s the right time to bid farewell to the bush around your vagina. But do it strategically.

Start by trimming the hair down to a manageable length, then gently exfoliate the skin to remove any dead cells and prevent ingrown hairs. Next, grab your trusty razor and get to work. Whether you prefer a clean shave or a neat trim… it is entirely up to you.

Just be gentle!

And while you’re at it, don’t forget about those hard-to-reach areas. That’s right, I’m talking about the asscrack. Believe me, no guy likes to come in contact with a dense bush of hair when they reach for you searching for pleasure.

So do yourself… and your partner, a favor and give that area a little care as well.

After all, when it comes to matters of the heart, a little grooming goes a long way.

Ah, but my fellow girls, it doesn’t stop here.

Until now, we have just scratched the surface. Yeah pun intended!

You see, when it comes to grooming down below, the possibilities are endless.

Sure, you could go for the classic clean shave or neat trim, but why stop there?

Why not get creative and have a little fun with it?

Just imagine if you and your partner are gearing up for a romantic night in, and you decide to surprise them with a little pubic hair art.

Want to show your partner some love? You can trim a heart into your pubic hair as a cheeky surprise.

Or even their initials…

A little tacky but does the job of getting your partner in mood.

So, why not use your grooming skills to express your love in a whole new way?

It’s a playful and a little intimate gesture that’s only for your partner and I can assure you that it’s going to spice things up in the bedroom.

Sure, trimming and shaving can be seen as everyday hygiene chores, but they can also be an opportunity for self-expression and a little bit of playful fun.

Apart from intimacy, there are practical benefits of removal of hair down there as well.

Ever encountered the issue of hairs poking out of leggings. You pull out a pair of snug leggings only to realize that our pubic hair has decided to play peek-a-boo and poke out from underneath.

Not a cute look, for sure!

Ah! We have all been there.

Nothing ruins a perfectly good outfit like a rogue hair making an appearance when we don’t need it.

By keeping things trimmed and tidy down below, you can avoid any embarrassing wardrobe malfunctions and rock your leggings with confidence.

And while we are at it, let’s talk about the impact of pubic hair on the duration of vaginal penetration as well.

Now, I’m no scientist, but hear me out.

When there is less hair in the way, it means more direct contact and heightened pleasure for both you and your partner. A smooth surface is not only more comfortable for both parties involved but also reduces friction and increases the likelihood of prolonged pleasure.

So, by grooming your pubic hair, you’re not just improving your own hygiene and aesthetics, but also setting the stage for a marathon session of passion and ecstasy. And that’s proved by multiple studies as well.

So… by keeping your pubic hair trimmed, you are not only making things more comfortable and enjoyable for your partner, but you are also increasing the likelihood of a satisfying and fulfilling experience for yourself.

And while it may seem like a small detail in the grand scheme of things, trust me when I say that down below can make all the difference in the world… both in and out of the bedroom.

As we wrap up our story on the world of pubic hair grooming, it’s important to remember that the decision to remove or trim your pubic hair is entirely personal.

Whether you choose to go bare, rock a neat trim, or let your natural bush flourish, the most important thing is that you feel comfortable and confident in your own skin.

Whether you’re going for a clean shave, a neat trim, or getting creative with some pubic hair art, the choice is yours.

Just remember, it’s not just about looking good. It’s about feeling good too.

But as we have learned, there are plenty of reasons to consider grooming your pubic hair beyond just aesthetics. From improved hygiene and reduced irritation to enhanced sexual pleasure and confidence in the bedroom, keeping your pubic area tidy and well-maintained can be a host of benefits for both your physical and emotional well-being.

So whether you’re getting ready for a romantic date night or simply looking to feel your best on a daily basis, don’t be afraid to give your pubic hair a nice trim.

Experiment with different grooming techniques, get creative with fun shapes and designs, and above all, listen to your body and do what feels right for you.

And remember, it’s not just about grooming your pubic hair… It’s about embracing and celebrating your body in all its natural beauty. Just know that you are beautiful and worthy of love and pleasure just the way you are.

Here is to embracing our bodies, celebrating our sexuality, and feeling fabulous from head to toe.