Big Or Small; Does Size Matter?
Men are obsessed with their bodies just the same way women are about theirs. They are bothered about how fat they are, how tall they are and how short they are. And this is the same way they are obsessed with their penis.
When it comes to the proper anatomy of the penis size. Only a few guys want a really honest assessment. But they are fond of asking women the question, how do you see my penis?
Sizing Him Up.
Women are generally found to size men up even from the first date. While the size of the penis might not be a bother for some women, the size matters to others. Women have very complex chemistry and might get attracted irrespective of the penis size but despite all the needed reassurance from sex therapists, urologists, wives, and girlfriends that it’s not the size of the penis that matters but the usage, guys still wonder if they measure up. And of course, size matters but not in the way most men think it does.
When the size is too big.
Too much importance has been attached to the size of the penis, and as a result, women have bigger eyes than their vaginas. Women have preferences for size even with the sex toys they use and the most popular being 6 inches long. There is this perception of how big it is determines how it is going to make them feel. Sometimes too big might leave you sore as you might need a lot of lube as there would be a lot of friction.
The sight of a big penis might look very pleasing to the female eyes but the reaction when it enters is entirely another thing. Research from women across the globe and personal experience have shown that it might be painful and a bit overwhelming when it is too big. You might need to be extraordinarily wet and be ready to deal with something that big.
A second time might not happen.
Guys who often get obsessed with their penis and probably want it some inches bigger do not take into consideration that a woman might be reluctant to have that big pole inside her again. A big penis can leave you sore the next day and make you not eager to have sex. There have been times I have personally said please take that big pole away from me.
I have met with a friend who was so sore after her encounter with a bigger than usual guy that she had to set up an emergency meeting with her gynaecologist. A big penis can make your woman avoid having sex with you.
It can hurt.
Accommodating an extra-large penis can bruise your pussy. A long and big penis will keep brushing against the woman’s cervix during sex thereby causing her pain and discomfort during the act. A larger penis girth can cause tears which can lead to possible bleeding. Making sex pleasurable with a big penis can often time require patience, lubricant, and different position experiment.
Is smaller any better?
Too big can be a problem when it comes to sex but again no woman wants a relatively small penis. A personal experience left me heartbroken after getting in bed with a man I have been crushing on all summer. I got carried away with the passion of the moment but learnt a very valuable lesson that the size of a man’s hand or feet or his stature does not determine how big or small his penis would be.
Having kids can sometimes stretch the vagina walls thus making an average penis look even smaller, so sometimes a good fit is not always up to the man.
The best help for the size challenge.
Rings and penis pumps can help add girth for guys with a modest penis. Women can as well do kegel exercises to tighten their vagina walls which will make the penis fit better inside of them. Continuous kegel exercise gives the woman a certain level of control during sex as she can contract more and harder thus making the sex pleasurable for both parties.
Don’t write him off completely.
Before ending things with a man because of his penis size, you need to be sure if he can compensate you in other ways. Does he have the ability to compensate for his shortcomings? A man who can please you in other ways and who pays attention to your every need is good. Paying attention is a big quality that can sometimes outweigh the penis size.
When it comes to sex, it is most times not about how small or how big he is or about how tight your vagina is, but what you both can do with what you have and how happy you are when you are both intimate.
Sometimes good oral sex can make up for small penis size.
My current partner isn’t the biggest when it comes to size but the way he eats me up and leaves my leg shaking after each sexual intercourse and the massive orgasm when he uses his tongue is all it is for me. We both find a way to make it fit and enjoy the sex.
