Cunnilingus: How to receive and get good oral sex
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Cunnilingus also referred to as oral sex involves eating someone out, licking someone out, and giving head. It explains when someone uses their mouth to stimulate a female’s vagina or vulva with the mindset to give pleasure.
A lot of women love cunnilingus because it involves the stimulation of the clitoris and has a higher percentage of helping them reach orgasm. A larger section of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm.
This article gives a step by step guide to cunnilingus and a step by step guide on how to give and receive oral sex.
What is Cunnilingus?
Cunnilingus involves the continuous stimulation of the female genital using the lips and the tongue. It requires special techniques and requires partners to relax before getting to it.
How to perform cunnilingus.
1. Start Slowly:
People who enjoy cunnilingus won’t like to go from zero to oral sex in 60 seconds. It is important to take your time and ease into the act. Use your mouths and hands all over the body which represents what is to come.
2. Flatten your Tongue:
People have different types of the clitoris. Some have a very sensitive clitoris. So it is important to start slow and not go heavy at the start. Make sure your tongue is flattened and begin with wide slow strokes which helps you explore their inner lips, clitoris, and vagina. Just do it like you are licking ice cream. Start licking from the perineum and lick up to the clit and back down while exploring both sides of the labia.
3. Experiment using different strokes:
The female vulva requires continuous stimulation for orgasm to happen. It is important to ask your partner how they like your tongue on their clitoris. Do they want it circularly, up-and-down, or side-to-side? It is important to discover and know what pleases your partner. It’s the best way to get them to enjoy cunnilingus.
4. Be guided by your partner:
Watching your partner masturbate can give you an idea of how they like their clitoris to be touched. It is important to ask them how they like to be touched or you can give them your hand and ask them to show you how they want the stroking.
5. Add penetration if it becomes necessary:
Penetration doesn’t need to happen during cunnilingus as that is not the main goal. It is important to ask for your partner’s consent before penetrating them with either your penis, a sex toy or your fingers. If they are comfortable with you penetrating them, a lubricant can become necessary. Insert the penis, finger or toy gently and move with slow but very firm strokes. In case you are using a dildo, you can use your tongue again on the clitoris while penetrating them with the dildo. The experience of penetration and clitoral stimulation can be very awesome if done properly.
6. Keep going at a steady pace:
Steady stimulation of the clitoris is known to do many tricks. The facial expression when your woman is nearing an orgasm is always obvious, from the moan to how they press your head deep against their crotch and how they tighten their grip on your head when you are eating their pussy. Always ask if you are going at a pace they like.
7. Use different Position:
For women who enjoy and like cunnilingus, it can be great when you straddle them with them lying on their back. Straddling them in this position ensures that there is a high level of contact between the mouth, the vulva, and their clitoris and this can offer your woman a very high level of intense pleasure.
8. Use a pillow:
Placing a pillow under the bums exposes the vulva more and makes the clitoris more obvious for you to eat properly.
Women are always very nervous when it comes to receiving cunnilingus. To get comfortable with cunnilingus, get naked in front of your mirror, spread your legs and look deeply into your vulva to appreciate the work of art down there. Getting comfortable with your vulva makes it easy for you to get comfortable with cunnilingus.
Understanding that the vulva comes in different shapes and sizes and the penis is one way to understand the female body. Getting to know your body and talking about your genitals with your partner makes it easy for you to get comfortable with cunnilingus.
During cunnilingus, focus on the sensation and make sure you connect well to your body. It is always important to wash down there as well to ensure that there is no smell as this would ensure your partner’s eagerness to eat you out.
