How To Deal With Breasts While Having Sex
Men spend a considerable amount of time ogling a woman’s breasts especially when she is fully dressed but when the clothes are off behind closed doors, they don’t know what to do with those lovely breasts.
Researches have shown that for a lot of women, the breast is a sensitive part of their body and it offers them great pleasure when touched rightly and accordingly but most men have no idea of how to handle a woman’s breast when they are left alone with one. Most would ignore the breast and go straight to sex once they have the go-ahead to be with a woman.
Some men like the breast but they handle the breast aggressively. Handling the breast wrongly or aggressively without minding how sensitive it is can put the woman off during sex and make her lose interest in the entire act even before it starts.
The best way to handle the breast from research and personal experience is to gently stimulate the nipples using the hands or better still using the tongue.
Continuous stimulation of the breast releases oxytocin which is also responsible for uterine and vaginal contractions that are associated with orgasms in women. This stimulation can bring continuous blood flow to the genitals thus making it easy for women to get their orgasm triggered.
Here are the best ways to handle a woman’s breast during sex!
Compliment her breasts:
It is very important to first tell your woman how great her breasts are even before touching them. Let her know her breast is exactly the size you want, and how they madly turn you on. Compliments are the real aphrodisiac and feeling comfortable in her skin will sure elevate her mood, sexual response, and her libido causing her to give her all to the sex.
Breasts are not always the same in every woman:
Men need to understand that the breast is different in every woman. Some have large breasts and some have smaller breasts. Some have very large nipples and others have small nipples. Some women prefer their breasts stimulated in the form of soft teasing and gentle tender while some want the breast handled roughly. Understanding what your woman wants and how sensitive her breast is to each touch is relatively one way to make her enjoy it.
Start gently and know what she likes.
It is important to handle the breast with caution as a start. Gently trace your fingers over their nipples in a circular motion. Rub the thumb gently over the nipples as you blow a breeze on it. You will notice the nipples harden and that’s all you need to know you are doing a good job. The breast has plenty of nerve endings and when stimulated well can give the woman a lot of pleasure.
Avoid Kneading or Grabbing:
While handling the breast, it is really important to avoid grabbing or kneading. Most men are found of grabbing the breast and kneading it aggressively during sex. Doing this can roughen things up for the woman and even cause her to dry up and lose interest in the entire sexual act.
Tease:
Make sure you kiss the entire breast, ignore the nipples for a few minutes and blow a breeze gently over them in a provocative manner but avoid making any physical contact until you are sure are body is writhing in pleasure. Her body language would determine the next thing to do. Ensure you tease her continuously until she is all wet down there.
Communication:
Try to communicate with her while touching or caressing the breast without spoiling the mood. Say things like do you like the way I am touching your nipples? Are you getting turned on with the way my tongue is lapping your nipples? Just communicate and let her know you are ready to worship that breast for as long as she wants.
Be teachable:
Before getting started, ask her how she likes to be touched. Ask her to show you she likes it and how she wants her nipples to be licked and handled. Avoid aggressively twisting her nipples.
Reach for the breasts during doggy:
While penetrating her from behind, be sure to touch her breast and fondle it gently and if she is the one riding you, be sure not to let your hand leave her breast. This will allow her to show you how she wants to be touched while she is riding you.
Pay attention to her reactions and her breathing rhythm:
It is important to pay attention to the way she breathes and moans while you are touching her breast. But be sure not to ignore the breast as continuous stimulation sends blood flow to the breast and this can cause the breast to swell up making it all desirable to be sucked.
