How To Do A ‘Purrfect’ 69
Talking about the “69" sex position brings me a lot of memories. Memories dating back into my early life and the particular health class I had in high school with classmates giggling over what it could be. Despite the awkwardness of the position, it’s really a very enjoyable act provided people can pay attention to this article to learn a thing or two.
My interaction with people especially women from around the world shows that people actually love 69ing because it provides the opportunity to receive and get oral sex at the same time. But while this act can feel incredible as a result of the dual stimulation both partners get to enjoy, It can also feel awkward and overwhelming if not done well.
If you are reading this article, there is a possibility that it sometimes gets overwhelming for you like it did for me the first time I tried it out. I mean getting that orgasm is even way hard when it’s your partner getting down on you but when you have to reciprocate the act at the same time, oh well…. You might be in for a ride.
But again, the act is not totally bad and you can enjoy it. This article gives a first-hand experience of how you can enjoy 69 and make it sexy.
Here are the basics you need to know.
How to 69 perfectly?
Getting the perfect position to 69 is actually way easier than people think. To get started, ensure that you and your partner are both relaxed, have your partner lie down flat on their back in whatever position they find most comfortable. Then you can climb on top of them in a way that your vagina is directly on your partner’s lips and his penis or her vagina lined with yours. To get a better angle that can allow you to enjoy sucking his penis or eating her pussy while he eats your pussy, try it in a side by side position. The trick to getting that perfect angle is to ensure that you both are relaxed before the act as you stand over him, ensure you massage and kiss the inner thighs and slowly crawl your way down his body until you get a perfect position.
Get handy.
The 69 position gives you the perfect chance to explore each other’s body. This position is great because you not only please your partner with your tongue, but your hands can also pleasure his other hot spot like his testicles sending waves of vibrations directly to his brains.
Turn the act into a sensual experience.
The thrill of sex is enjoying how it feels to be touched in ways that can bring maximum pleasure. Getting touched in certain ways brings about that perfect sex. Making the 69 into this is a perfect way to enjoy the act. You should focus deeply on what it feels like to touch your partner in a certain way and what it feels like to be touched in return.
A Vibrator and Dildo can be perfect.
While 69ing, you can introduce a vibrator or dildo. You can use the vibrator to stimulate the vulva in addition to using the tongue. For two vulva involving partners, a vibrator can help you both maximize pleasure. A dildo can also be introduced to provide a penetrative pleasure that the 69 or the fingers can not offer.
Take Breaks.
Trying to pleasure your partner can make it hard for you to focus on your orgasm. Taking a break can help you both get the needed position and talk about the exact place to put the tongue for maximum pleasure.
Take Sides.
If your main focus is the 69 position without any penetration, the perfect position that can help you both reach orgasm is for you both to lie on your side. Lying on the side will help you avoid muscle strains that can prevent you from enjoying the act. For those with thick thighs, you can use the thighs as pillows to help reduce neck pain to the barest minimum.
Ensure to switch it up orally.
To enjoy the 69 sex position well, you need to go fast, go slow and in circles. Take both long and short strokes to relieve the pressure. The hottest head is when you and your partner are both enjoying the sensation from the head at the same time
Avoid Pressure.
The end goal of 69 doesn’t have to be an orgasm. Taking your mind off it allows you to enjoy the position more because it can help your transition to a better position that can give you an orgasm.
