Nine Positions That Make You Squeal!
Let’s get real for a second. We all know that sex is meant to be fun, exhilarating, and oh-so-pleasurable. Yet, sometimes we find ourselves stuck in a routine that’s as thrilling as watching a daily soap rerun.
Yawn.
If you have ever been there, (and let’s be honest, who hasn’t?), it’s time to shake things up a bit and dive into the wonderful world of positions that can take your pleasure from “meh” to “oh my GOD!”
First off, let’s toss out the notion that good sex is all about acrobatics. You don’t need to be a Bollywood item dancer to experience mind-blowing pleasure.
What you do need is a bit of curiosity, a dash of confidence, and the willingness to explore. So, whether you are a seasoned player or a curious newbie, I have got you covered with positions that are guaranteed to spice things up and leave you and your partner begging for more.
Now, let’s get down to business.
We can’t push enough up on the notion of our bodies are amazing, and knowing how to maximize every sensation is key.
The beauty of changing positions isn’t just about the novelty, although that’s definitely a perk, but instead it’s about discovering what feels good for you.
We are talking about deep spots, angles that hit just right, and movements that send shivers down your spine.
Ladies, meet your new best friends: the positions that’ll have you seeing stars.
→ Missionary
Alright, first let’s talk about a classic that doesn’t get nearly enough love.
The good old Missionary position.
Yes, you heard me right! Missionary isn’t just for boring nights or newbies; it’s a hidden gem when it comes to maximizing pleasure.
So, let’s break it down and add some sizzle to this timeless favorite.
First things first, let’s clear up any misconceptions.
Missionary isn’t just the “vanilla” position of the bedroom. Done right, it can be a powerhouse of pleasure.
In Missionary, you’re lying on your back with your legs comfortably spread, and your partner is on top, facing you. Sounds simple, right? But the magic lies in the details.
Now, let’s get into why Missionary can be a game-changer. For starters, this position offers fantastic eye contact, which is super intimate and can make the whole experience much more connected and passionate.
Who doesn’t love a bit of soul-gazing while getting down to business?
And let’s not forget those sweet, soft kisses and whispered nothings that can happen when you’re face-to-face.
ROMANCE LEVEL: EXPERT!
But it’s not just about the emotional connection. Missionary allows for deep penetration, which is great for hitting that elusive G-spot. You know, the one that makes you see fireworks and feel like you’re floating on a cloud.
Here is a little tip, You can have your partner adjust the angle by propping themselves up on their hands or shifting their hips slightly. This minor change can make a major difference, trust me.
Want to kick things up a notch? Try putting a pillow under your hips. This little lift changes the angle of penetration, targeting your sweet spots with pinpoint precision. You’ll thank me later. And don’t be afraid to move those hips and get into the rhythm. Guide your partner with those sultry moves and let them know exactly what you like.
Moreover, in Missionary, your partner’s pelvis can rub against your clitoris with each thrust, creating double the pleasure. And here’s the cherry on top: because you’re so close, you can easily touch and explore each other’s bodies. Run your hands down their back, grip their shoulders, or even give a playful smack if you are feeling naughty.
The possibilities are endless!
So, next time you’re thinking Missionary is just a basic move, think again. It’s all about how you work it.
→ Cowgirl:
We are about to talk about a position that puts you in the driver’s seat. Literally!
Say hello to the Cowgirl position, where you’re riding high and calling the shots. If you’ve ever wanted to take control and show off those moves, this one’s for you.
First, let’s break down the angles. In Cowgirl, your partner lies back while you straddle them, facing them. Think of it as your own private horse ride, but instead of a horse, you’ve got your partner ready to take you on the ride of your life. Your knees are on either side of their hips, and you’re in control of the rhythm, depth, and pace.
You set the tempo, and they follow your lead.
Now, let’s dive into why this position is an absolute pleasure powerhouse for women?
For starters, being on top means you get to decide exactly how things go down.
Want it slow and sensual? Go for it.
Feeling wild and frisky? Buckle up and let loose.
The power is in your hands, or rather, your hips.
One of the best things about Cowgirl is how it allows for deep penetration, hitting all the right spots with precision. You can adjust the angle by leaning forward for a more intense sensation or leaning back for a different kind of magic.
Leaning back also opens up the possibility for some clitoral stimulation, which is always a win-win in my book. And speaking of hands, let’s not forget the freedom they have in this position. Use them to caress your partner’s chest, run your fingers through their hair, or just grab your partner as you ride. Your partner’s hands are also free to roam.
But wait, there is more!
The visual aspect of Cowgirl is undeniably hot. Your partner gets an incredible view of you in all your glory, and seeing their reaction can be a huge turn-on.
Another perk? Cowgirl is a killer workout for your thighs and core. Who needs the gym when you can tone those muscles while having a blast? Enjoy the burn!
→ Reverse Cow Girl
It’s the daring cousin of the classic Cowgirl.
In Reverse Cowgirl, your partner lies back while you straddle them, but instead of facing them, you are facing their feet.
Yep, you get to look at those sexy toes while you work your magic, or you can lean a little more to give your partner a foot massage from your tongue, if you have a foot fetish.
Your knees are on either side of their hips, and your hands can rest on their thighs or even on the bed for balance.
Think of it as your own personal throne, and you’re the queen in control.
Now, let’s get to the juicy part. Why Reverse Cowgirl is an absolute game-changer for your pleasure? You can rock back and forth, move up and down, or even grind in circles. It’s your show, and you get to call the shots.
This level of control means you can find that perfect angle that hits your G-spot just right. Trust me, when you find that sweet spot, it’s pure magic.
One of the best things about Reverse Cowgirl is how it allows for incredibly deep penetration. Because of the angle, your partner can reach places that are often missed in other positions. Lean forward for a more intense experience or sit upright for a more leisurely ride. The power is in your hands… or rather, your hips. Also, you can easily reach down and give yourself a little extra attention for bursting the dams of your orgasm.
Moreover, your partner gets a fantastic view of your back and booty, which is undeniably hot. They may even give a smack or two if they are naughty that night.
It checks all the boxes for a sexy view for your partner.
So, the next time you’re feeling adventurous and want to take control from a whole new angle, hop into Reverse Cowgirl. It’s a surefire way to enhance your pleasure, boost your confidence, and have an unforgettable experience.
→ Spooning
Let’s talk about a position that’s all about intimacy, comfort, and oh-so-much pleasure.
This one is perfect for those cozy nights when you want to feel super connected while still getting your mind blown.
It has the potential to become your next favorite.
In Spooning, both you and your partner lie on your sides, facing the same direction. Your partner is behind you, wrapping their arms around you like a big, warm blanket. It’s like a sexy, human cuddle. Your legs can be straight or bent, and your partner’s legs should align with yours.
This position is perfect for those moments when you want to be close and feel every inch of your partner against you. This position allows for maximum skin-to-skin contact, which can make the whole experience feel super intimate and connected.
It’s perfect for those slow, sensual sessions where you want to take your time and savor every moment. One of the best things about Spooning is how it hits the G-spot. Your partner can reach that magical spot with ease.
You can enhance this by slightly arching your back or tilting your hips forward, giving your partner even better access. Moreover, spooning gives your partner easy access to all your erogenous zones. They can use their hands to caress your breasts, play with your nipples, or even give your clitoris some attention.
It’s like an all-access pass to pleasure city.
Feel free to guide their hands to where you want them or use your own hands for some extra stimulation. The more, the merrier!
Want to spice things up even more? Try bending one of your legs and resting it on top of your partner’s leg. This slight adjustment opens up your body and allows for deeper penetration. Another variation is to have your partner lift your top leg slightly, giving them even more room to move and explore.
Spooning is also perfect for those lazy mornings or nights when you want to take it slow. It’s a great way to combine the comfort of cuddling with the intensity of deep, intimate sex. And don’t forget the added bonus of being able to whisper sweet nothings or naughty somethings into each other’s ears.
The intimacy factor is off the charts!
So, the next time you’re in the mood for something cozy yet incredibly hot, give spooning a try. It’s the perfect blend of intimacy and pleasure, with plenty of room for creative modifications, like the one below.
→ Doggy Style
Ready to unleash your inner wildcat?
Let’s dive into one of the hottest positions out there – the Doggy Style. This position is all about letting go, feeling powerful, and hitting those deep spots that drive you absolutely wild. If you’re looking to ramp up the pleasure and have some seriously steamy fun, this one’s for you!
In classic Doggy Style, you’re on all fours, hands and knees, while your partner enters you from behind. Simple, right? But don’t let the simplicity fool you; this position is a powerhouse when it comes to delivering intense sensations.
Your partner gets a fantastic view of your gorgeous back and booty, and you get to enjoy deep penetration that can hit your G-spot and A-spot just right, and occasionally your hips as well.
Now, let’s get to the good stuff. Your partner can go deep, really deep, which means they’re hitting spots that might otherwise be missed. And because you’re on all fours, your partner can control the angle and intensity of each thrust. Plus, the position naturally creates a bit of tension in your pelvic muscles, which can make everything feel even more intense.
Want to take things up a notch? Try a few variations!
One of my favorites is having your partner stand while you bend over in front of them. This modification gives you a bit more control and can change the angle of penetration in a deliciously different way.
You can place your hands on a bed, table, or even a wall for support. The standing position allows for some serious thrusting power, and it feels absolutely amazing.
Another great modification is to lower your chest to the bed while keeping your hips raised. This creates a deeper curve in your back, changing the angle of penetration and targeting different pleasure spots.
And don’t be afraid to play with the angle of your hips, tilt them up or down to find what feels best for you.
Your partner’s hands are free to roam, so they can caress your back, grab your hips, or reach around for some clitoral action. And let’s not forget the magic of a little spanking if that’s your thing. The position naturally exposes your most sensitive areas, making it perfect for some playful, naughty fun.
→ Lotus
This may sound like some yoga position, but I promise this isn’t just for yoga enthusiasts, though if you are one, you are in for an extra treat. It’s going to make you both feel like you are floating on a cloud.
First, let’s set the scene. You’re sitting on the bed or any comfy surface, your legs crossed in a classic lotus position. If this sounds a bit yoga-esque, that’s because it is, but trust me, we are taking it to a whole new level here.
Your partner then sits facing you, legs wrapped around your waist, pulling you closer until your bodies are intertwined. Think of it like being enveloped in a human pretzel.
And, if you are adventurous, ask your partner to recline more.
Now, here’s the magic of the lotus position: it’s all about closeness and connection. Your faces are mere inches apart, your bodies pressed tightly together. It’s intimate, sensual, and let’s be honest, incredibly hot. The closeness allows for deep eye contact, which can be incredibly erotic.
It’s like you’re seeing into each other’s souls. Add in some slow, deep kisses, and you’re already halfway to heaven.
What really kicks things up a notch is the angle. Because your bodies are so close, the angle of penetration is different from the typical missionary or doggy style. It’s deeper, and this means more direct stimulation of the G-spot. In the lotus position, you’re basically ensuring it gets all the attention it deserves.
With your partner’s hands free, they can explore your body, adding an extra layer of stimulation. They can caress your back, your breasts, or wherever else you love to be touched. And you can do the same, holding onto them, feeling every muscle tense and release with each movement.
It’s a full-body experience, making the pleasure that much more intense.
And let’s not forget the pace. The lotus position naturally lends itself to slower, more deliberate movements. It’s not about rushing to the finish line; it’s about savoring every second. This slow pace can build up the anticipation and make the climax that much more explosive.
So, the next time you’re looking to spice things up, try the lotus position. Trust me, you’ll thank me later.
Now, go forth and get your lotus on, ladies!
→ Butterfly
It’s time for another deliciously naughty exploration into the wonderful world of pleasure. So, are you ready to spread those wings and soar? Let’s get to it!
Imagine a cozy space like your bed, a fluffy rug, or even a sturdy table if you’re feeling adventurous. Lie back, your legs parted and knees bent, your feet firmly planted on the surface. You’re the stunning centerpiece of this sexy scenario.
Your partner kneels in front of you, ready to make some magic happen. They lift your hips slightly off the bed, table, or floor, supporting you by holding your thighs. And voilà, you’re in the butterfly position.
Now, let’s talk about the mechanics. Your partner’s position allows for deep, delicious penetration. With your hips elevated and legs spread wide, the angle is perfect for hitting all those sweet spots, making this position a go-to for toe-curling orgasms.
But here’s where the butterfly gets its twist.
This position offers incredible control and flexibility. Your partner can adjust the height of your hips or the angle of their thrusts to hit just the right spot. They can also use their hands to caress your thighs, hips, or anywhere else, and because you’re in a semi-reclined position, your hands are free to explore your body or guide your partner’s movements.
And if you are feeling adventurous? You can prop your hips up with a pillow for an even steeper angle. Or, if you’re in the mood for a bit of a workout, wrap your legs around your partner’s waist and use your core to lift and lower your hips. It’s like a sexy Pilates class with a much better ending.
With your hips elevated and legs spread, your partner has easy access to your most sensitive areas. They can use their hands, mouth, or toys to add an extra layer of pleasure.
This double whammy of G-spot and clitoral stimulation is like a one-way ticket to orgasm city.
And don’t forget the eye contact. In this position, you can look directly into each other’s eyes, adding an intimate, emotional connection to the physical pleasure. It’s like you’re sharing a private, sexy secret that only the two of you know. So, if you are ready for it, give it a shot and you’ll be fluttering with pleasure in no time, and trust me, you’ll be coming back for more.
→ Spider
It’s surely a bit out of the ordinary but don’t worry, there are no creepy crawlies involved. It’s just a web of pleasure that’ll have you feeling tangled in the best way possible.
Picture you and your partner sitting on the bed, facing each other. Your legs are interlocked, kind of like two spiders meeting in the middle of their web.
Sounds intriguing, right? Now, lean back slightly on your hands for support, and let the fun begin.
In this position, you’re both sitting up, which means you can maintain delicious eye contact. You can see every expression, every gasp, every moan, making the experience incredibly personal and erotic.
And, because you’re facing each other, your partner can control the depth and angle of penetration with ease. The slight backward lean opens up your hips, providing an ideal angle for hitting your G-spot.
And here’s a twist to ramp up the heat: try adding some rhythm.
Rock your hips back and forth in sync with your partner. This motion not only increases friction and intensity but also ensures that your clit gets some much-needed stimulation against their pelvis. Dual stimulation for the win!
Let’s not forget about the intimacy factor. Being face-to-face means you can share deep, passionate kisses. Whisper sweet nothings, or, if you’re in the mood, some dirty talk to keep things sizzling.
And here’s a final twist to make things even spicier: switch up the pace. Start slow, savoring each movement, each thrust. Build up the anticipation until you’re both ready to explode. Then, pick up the pace, moving faster, harder, chasing that ultimate orgasm.
The contrast between slow and fast can heighten the sensations and make the climax even more powerful.
So, get ready to crawl into bed and enjoy the ride!
→ Seagull
The Seagull position is all about creativity and intimacy.
Start by lying on your back on the bed, with your legs spread wide open. Your partner kneels between your legs, lifting your hips slightly off the bed.
Now, instead of the usual, you’re going to bring your legs up and rest your calves on your partner’s shoulders. And just like that, you’re in the Seagull position, ready to take flight!
With your hips elevated and legs resting on your partner’s shoulders, they have perfect access to your G-spot. Plus, the slight lift of your hips gives your partner better control over their movements, ensuring they can adjust to hit just the right spot every time.
Here’s where things get even better. The Seagull position isn’t just about deep penetration – it’s about full-body involvement. And, with this position, it’s perfectly positioned for some extra stimulation, either from their fingers or a toy. Trust me, the combination of internal and external stimulation is enough to make you see stars.
Want to make things even more intense?
Try incorporating some movement. Have your partner lean forward slightly, pressing your legs closer to your chest. This change in angle can increase the pressure on your G-spot and clit, driving you wild with pleasure. Or, for a more active role, try rocking your hips in rhythm with your partner’s thrusts. This back-and-forth motion not only heightens the sensations but also allows you to control the depth and pace, making it easier to find that perfect rhythm that sends you over the edge. So, next time you’re in the mood to spread your wings and explore new pleasures, give the Seagull position a try.
These nine positions are pure magic.
If you’re looking to spice things up, dive into these adventurous twists and turns. Trust me, darling, you’ll thank yourself… and maybe me too… later.
So go ahead, and let the fireworks begin. Because, honey, life’s too short for mediocre sex.
