Ten Fuckups Guys Make When They Have Sex
Men are fond of making certain serious mistakes when it comes to what women want during sex or when in bed. Deciding to chastise yourself for bad sex isn’t bad and giving yourself all the needed thumb up after great sex isn’t that bad but don’t get too confident thinking you know what a woman wants in bed. Studies have shown that men are not exactly that skilful in bed as they always assume they are. When it comes to knowing the basic things women want to bed, men make too many mistakes and this article points out 10 mistakes that can be avoided.
Playing Silent
Men are often found to be silent during sex and most time feel like it’s a fine act but this can make your woman feel ignored even during the act. There is no need to be all chatty during the act but it’s very important to let your partner know you are enjoying the whole act genuinely. The moaning and the dirty talks are not entirely a bad thing.
Foreplay is very important
Men often just go straight to the sex without the foreplay. The effort you put into kissing and caressing the woman as you undress her is important than the whole act. Men sometimes ignore this and dive in straight. Foreplays allows you to understand your woman’s body as women generally love the build-up before the penetration. The oral sex, the making out, the intense kissing is just as important as the penetration.
Pay less attention to Orgasm
Paying too much attention to orgasm even before the act can make you lose sight of the enjoyable moment with your woman. There is no need to be all desperate about getting your woman to orgasm. Spend time on her body without rushing it as this would make your woman believe she is actually with someone who knows what he is doing.
Not all the time licking
Oral sex is very important as it involves licking the labia majora and deep penetration with your tongue, it might seem cool but not all the time. Pay attention to her body to know what she wants at that exact moment.
The fingers are important too.
Penetration is awesome but using the fingers can even be more awesome. Try to rub your woman’s clit going from simple to aggressive back to simple and see her squirming under you. When using your fingers, allow your woman to get used to having your fingers inside her and know when to increase the intensity depending on the mood.
Pay attention to her wants.
Men often think pounding is all that it is to sex and that’s the only way for a woman to get an orgasm. Women are very sensitive and they appreciate deep emotions. So instead of thrusting away, check your partner and her response, let her take the lead while you follow. She can tell you to go slow and at a time and tell you to go harder and faster later. Paying attention to her wants is all you need to please a woman.
Take It easy with the Clitoris
Women enjoy stimulating the clitoris than the actual penetration. So always pay attention to the clitoris. While paying attention, ensure that you are not rubbing it forcefully. Go easy. The clitoris is very sensitive, and applying too much force can cause more pain than pleasure.
Put her entire body in mind.
Pleasing a woman takes more than focusing on just kissing her necks and rubbing her inner thighs. There are other sensitive areas that you can unlock to give your woman a pleasurable and memorable experience. Don’t concentrate on just one part of her body. Move from kissing her neck to fondling her breast and don’t focus too much on the clitoris. Overstimulation of the clitoris can sometimes be painful.
Be rough now and give the sweetness later.
Women enjoy a bit of roughness provided it is consensual. It is important to go easy with the roughness. Follow her lead and ensure that you pay deep attention to her bedroom needs. Cuddling and snuggling after sex is a good act.
Don’t over stress about the G-spot.
Most men don’t know where the Granfenberg Spot (G-spot is located). The G-spot is found some inches up the anterior vaginal wall always between the vaginal opening and the urethra. To locate the G-spot insert your fingers and curve them up like you are asking someone to come towards you. You will find that spongy tissue but be careful so you don’t make it all to the sex less it becomes boring and end your sex life.
