Ten Outrageous Acts Couples Should Try!
She woke up in the middle of the night craving for something sweet. Going to the refrigerator she picked out some ice-cream in a bowl. She sensed him behind. He questioned what was she doing there at that hour. In response she told him she was just enjoying her dessert. She made him lean back on the table and dropped some on his naked body unintentionally. Oops! She went down slowly to lick it off gradually moving south and taking his penis in her mouth and making his gasp in surprise and pleasure. Those who have watched “ Fifty Shades of Grey” trilogy must be familiar with this super hot scene. Those who haven’t be sure to check it out. You’re missing out on some really fun sequence! What happens is when we start dating someone and take things further everything feels perfect. There is lots of sex and foreplay. Sometimes the latter is not even required. Its simply hitting the bed and having the time of your lives. Gradually when we get comfortable and do the same positions or the ways which lead to sex eventually are predictable , sex life gets a bit boring. It feels more like a chore. And for the days where you both come back tired there is a full stop. It is important to keep the spark burning. There are so many positions to experiment ( with prior understanding) and turn the heat up. Apart from that we have curated a little something to help you figure it out in case you are clueless on how to actually work on it. Let’s get into ten outrageous things to do during sex.
Try using a blindfold : Try a silk cloth or something soft for beginners. Once you are comfortable you can step up the game. As one of the senses is limited the rest four senses get more active. Wear something sexy for instance a lacy lingerie of just a scarf and let them use their hands and mind to figure it out. The anticipation of what their partner might do next is quite arousing. Excite them, seduce them and make them wet down there without giving the visuals letting their imagination do the trick. Explore your playful side, add that fun factor and switch it up with some dominance. When you’ll finally let go of the blindfold it is bound to lead to an amazing round of sex!
Kitchen slab sex : while your partner is occupied making some delicacy or the two of you are spending some private time cooking make use of the opportunity to utilize that beautiful marble kitchen slab for a better thing. Lay them on it and explore their body. You may put some ice cubes on her body and let it roll down her curves. That butter knife can be used in a better way. Maybe for applying some jam on her nips and lick it off while your eyes seduce her even more. Whisper the things you want to do to them right there. The coldness of the slab on her butt cheeks will make her feel good as you make her hot. Follow it up with turning her around for a doggy position and give some good spanking. The alternate heat and cold sensations will surely be delightful. You may even use a wooden spatula for it.
Ensure that you have the privacy. Somebody walking in and disturbing would not be a pleasant experience. Now if you like risky quickies go for it. Give her that intense fingering or a fellatio ( him/her). Follow it up with some wild sex without worrying about the objects slipping off the slab. It is erotic and fun as you cannot keep your hands off each other and wait till you get to the bedroom and take them right there. For that purpose you can also try getting lucky in some more areas like- the balcony, backseat of your car, the sofa in your living room or the dining table too. After all it is meant to be eaten there!
Take it to the window : For the moments when you are pining your partner against the wall and holding their legs apart while you fuck them like crazy or just touching and feeling each others body romantically move near the window. As you see the outside world going on with their lives while you are busy reaching heights of pleasure is a big turn on. Remember to keep the lights off so you can see them without being seen. If you wish this you can absolutely avoid it.
Food play : Remember the scene we all visualised in the beginning? Well, this is your sign to try it out. You can use whipped cream, chocolate syrup, honey, caramel sauce or the classic favourite i.e. favourite flavour of ice cream. Spread it on their body. Particularly the breasts, stomach, neck, back, legs , inner thighs for women and nipples, chest, holy grail , inner thighs for men. Tasting it off their body will excite them for sure. You can also, drop some wine/ any drink on her body and enjoy your sips. Get wild! BUT Do not put anything inside the vagina . Stay careful near that area. You would not like to get a infection or any allergy. These things if put inside the vagina can cause yeast infection. Avoid that completely. Simply stay around the genital area at a distance safe enough to turn them on. Rest, the visual of your partner licking food off your body is super arousing. You can believe us.
Use some sex toys : We know women like playing with their themselves and taking the heat up using dildos , vibrators and things like that to pleasure themselves when they are alone. You can use it in the presence of your partner too. It will increase your vulnerability with them and bring you closer as you succumb yourself to them. Trust them and relax. It will be awesome! There are lots of options and you can get them delivered at your doorstep discreetly. Perfect no?
From vibrators, cock rings, Butt plugs, dildos to vibratory rings that will drive your woman crazy in pleasure because of the vibrations on her clitoris as you thrust inside her. You can also ask her to put in a butt plug for sometime while you are busy with your work. Once you’re alone pull it out and you know what to do next! Expect more than one orgasm every time you have that sexy time.
Have a wet, shower sex : We all know it is so romantic taking a shower with your beloved. You can spice things up and use that foamy bodywash to lather up their body. While your hands will create the required friction they will be aching with the pleasure of being touched. Give her a good hair wash. Slowly let your hands work up on her scalp and the nape of her neck. When the moment feels right enter them from behind or front, whatever works! Let your needs and fantasies make way into each other while the water flows down from your bodies. It helps in faster clean up so you can walk out without things getting messy. Be mindful of stable positions and it is a good option to keep an anti slip bath mat.
Keep a mirror close by : As you experiment with new positions or continue the everyday faithful position that brings you both to climax try doing it in front of a mirror. The visual stimulation makes it more arousing and stimulating. You can see your partner’s expression . Their lust. Their excitement. Their fingers touching you as you do it feels better when you have them looking at you. Having that effect on someone boosts your own desires too. It also helps in the feelings of body positivity. You get comfortable exploring more and taking things further ahead. It creates a strong sense of intimacy too. It also fulfils your voyeuristic fantasies ( if you have any). For some people watching themselves having sex brings out the wilder side of them. Sounds fun right!
Anal sex and double penetration : There is this tabboo around the topic of anal sex that makes it less explored. Some even consider it only a gay couple thing. Some people also have the fear that it might end up being more painful than pleasurable. Yes is can be if not done properly. Do not go for anal sex without some fingering beforehand for a few days. That hole is smaller and needs to get used to being stretched by one finger or two then move ahead. You can arouse you woman by lingering your fingers near her butt hole while she rides your penis. Then surprise her by putting a finger in. Always use a lube since anus is not self lubricating like the vagina. It is an important step. It helps with the friction and makes it fun. Actually enjoyable. There are various types of lubes available like the water based ones, oil based and silicone based meant to be chosen according to the need.
If you’re using condoms go for water based or silicone based. If you’re using the sex toys use the oil based ones. For the situations when the condom is not used go for water based , non fragrant lubes. Fragrance is found to irritate the mucosal layer. Better safe than sorry. Make sure the positions you try the anal sex are comfortable for both of you. When you are used to having it on a regular basis you can try something wilder. Make way for double penetration! Having both the holes filled is very stimulating and hot.
Bring on that dirty talk: While we are sexting a handsome hunk we are courageous enough to say dirty things and receive such texts that make us super wet but not everyone feels comfortable doing it in person. It is actually a fantasy to some . Being whispered filthy stuff while being banged makes them more horny. Find out if your partner loves it too. Ask questions while doing it. Slowly you can make things more intense. Who knows you might have a leg shaking orgasm like never before. Women love dirty talk. During wild sex it is a necessity. Yes it is.
Light bondage : As you unleash your dominant side you can try tying up your partner. Use your tongue and flick it over their vagina without allowing them to use their hands. Finger them as per your liking. Assert your control and make them experience things about their body that they never did before. For the ladies out here, you can do the same. Tie him up and switch roles. Show your dominant, wild side. That bad girl who takes what she wants.
You can also instruct him and make him do things to you. Use lighter materials so as to keep it safe. Men are visual characters. You can also touch yourself in front of him let him watch as you moan in pleasure. The thrill of power. The helplessness. Oh! It is really hot.
It is important to have consent before trying out any of these. Sex should be safe and pleasurable. Do not push your partner. If they feel uncomfortable doing anything just back out. Now that you know all the pleasure secrets , go ahead and stir up the energy.
