The Secret of ‘Big O’
In a country where virginity is still thought of as a virtue, it is only fair for girls & women to indulge in self-pleasure. And they do. But since there is a big hue & cry about such things in our society, so people have just one choice, to keep mum and continue doing what they want to do. This holds true especially for women. They are discreet about such things.
But so much effort for what? Just an orgasm. Well it is not just an orgasm. Due to this mere biological reaction, people cheat on their partners, loyalty takes a back seat, perversion takes a new meaning, you are ready to stake your security by indulging with multiple sex partners, just to have that one perfect moment of orgasm!
Those of us who can’t go for the real action have to make peace with other substitutes wherein you watch x rated movies, read x rated stuff, go down on your partner in the hope of the favor being returned and what not!
If that was not enough, then distort the sex scene a little bit further to step into the world of forced sex, foot fetish, role play, biosexuals, homosexuals, heterosexual being taken by shemales etc etc. so this huge larger than life picture of sex should tell you how much an orgasm matters to human beings.
Especially women because they do not have a 100% success rate. Women do not come with any kind of sure short phenomenon that will make them come. What you do to one woman might give her a mind blowing orgasm, while it might not even arouse the other one.
So those magazines which endlessly talked about how to please your woman in bed testify to the fact that women are not as satisfied as men are. This intricacy of the phenomenon of sex ranging from different positions to different sex toys doesn’t guarantee woman an orgasm.
Seems women can be more complicated than you could imagine. So making her come now might seem like a tedious task. Well it is not as tough as you think it is. At times you would need to be a pro at multi tasking to make her come.
Stimulation of different body parts all at the same time can make her come like you never saw her before. Then there are those sensitive areas, sensitive to some, useless to others.
Did you know that as much as a light brush of lips across her collar bone can make her wet instantly? Probably that is the reason why every love making scene in a romantic novel talks about kisses on the throat, collar bone and shoulders.
Women are foreplay creatures. They want lot of it. And you have got to give her a lot of it to be sure that she is not faking an orgasm. And please don’t rush into do anything with the limited things you know.
Every girl is different. So is your girl. So you shouldn’t just count on oral sex when talking about foreplay. Try and discover your girl. Discover, not ask.
Discover her biggest turn ons, her G-spots, her sex fantasy, her favorite position, her apprehensions. Unveil all of this before diving in. Agreed that magazines contribute to your limited knowledge about what women want. But what your girl wants can be much more than what you already know.
So don’t subject her to any preconceived notions. Girls are like blind turns. You can’t be too sure of what lies ahead or what you might run into at the next corner. If you are not careful about the twists and turns, soon you will find your life spinning out of control and you will have a head on collision with one of those dead ends right around the blind turn.
So my advice to Guyz. Don’t overestimate your skills in bed and don’t underestimate her sexual desires.
She is probably more than you can handle, but if you are not considerate enough, you will soon find your name in the list of those ignorant fools who are treated to a fake orgasm 90% of the time by their girlfriends who in the end leave them to be with someone who can actually assuage all their needs.
