Why Do Women Like Rough Sex!
“ Hey! Your anklet is here on my side table”, his text momentarily shifted my attention from the college project I was working on. The steamy flashbacks of my feet resting on his broad shoulder and my dainty anklet dangling near his face as he kissed my feet. His manhood was spreading my insides slowly making me whimper. I rolled my eyes back as my lips curl into a grin. I shook my head and typed back, “Then Make me wear it.” I was still sore from all the grabbing and spanking but I needed him more. I could not get enough. I loved this.
He did not make love. He fucked. Raw and rough. He dominated. We all crave for it. Don’t we ? The jackhammering that makes us forget about everything and savour the sensations of sweet pain and pleasure . Every time my girls and I hung out together, we obviously discussed how our sex lives was going on and what new things we tried out in bed. Nobody ever got as excited for slow gentle sex as they did for rough sex. We absolutely love it. Nothing beats the feeling of diving into the world of fetishes and imagining them later on a boring day. Looking forward to the next one gets even more thrilling .
“ Come over”, his demanding tone was evident as I read his message .
“ See you”, I could not stop myself from blushing . He was different from the men I have dated in the past . We had undeniable chemistry. His touch felt safe and turning on at the same time. My body responded to his words, his deep gravelly voice without defending him in my head that give it a shot. I could have been doing the most mundane work but his voice filled with passion never failed to ignite my senses. He made it clear from the start that when he would fuck me he would not be gentle. Immediately, I found myself imagining when that would happen. We love it when we hear that. It is a chance to not be a good vanilla girl but a passionate fireball who knows what she wants and takes it. Who would not like it ? Everyone likes being in control sometimes and not just laying around expecting the man to take what he needs and leave us just like that. Not completely content. How is it fair ? Thankfully, us women have started expressing ourselves loud ( puns intended ) and not pushing their desires to the back of their mind, just to keep a man interested. We know our worth and our needs. Gentle sex maybe relaxing on a few nights but rough sex is what most women crave for. It makes us step up and enjoy the intimacy. The waves of pain and pleasure. The spanks. The tugging and kneading. The biting. It takes is on a ride of orgasms.
So, what actually comes to our mind when we say “ Rough sex “ ? Starting off by hair pulling, being pinned down, biting, being tied up, slapping, chocking, scratching, hair thrusting, punching, spanking, throwing someone into a bed, making someone have sex, and tearing clothes off are the most common activities that couples participate in. Everyone has a specific way how they like it. How they want to be pleasured and made love to. You have to figure it out together. It is absolutely alright if this is not your cup of tea but for those who prefer it, it is a heart pounding escapade.
No feeling can surpass that of letting yourself loose , leaving the shackles of the society / your mind and unleashing the animal within of us that desires to be fulfilled in every way possible. Who want pleasure so much so that it is sensed throughout the body and mind. Also leaves us wanting more of it. Now, not everybody is well versed with rough sex or some are just curious on how to go about it. Or the things that they are doing wrong ( as it turns off their partner ). Here are a few things that should absolutely be kept in mind. It is important to start slow and steady. Be it spanking or grabbing. Rhythmic light spanks followed by harder ones keep the excitement building . Switching it up accordingly is a must . Also, rubbing and kissing the red skin of their body after your spank calms them and prepares them for the next round. Lighter ones send goose bumps throughout the body while the intense sensations that harder ones provide is simply heavenly. If you are feeling a bit more playful and confident , you can incorporate paddle ( of rubber or wood ). It is a safe beginner’s toy but remaining in control of the situation is important. It is good to gain trust and have an honest and open conversation beforehand. We like clarity. Ask us. Get things rightfully done. It should not come off as forced. Yes we like the forced sex but in the back of our mind we know that it is one of our fantasies and the person doing it to us is trustworthy. He is somebody who can lead and will make sure we are okay. Be it through facial signs or verbal signs.
A survey said that approximately sixty two percent of women in India liked being bad in bed. When I conducted my own little survey it turned out to be almost 100 percent. Although, my survey’s sample size was very small but I am shocked that there is such a large number of women craving for some rough games. I do not think we want to miss out on that absolutely thrilling experience. Right ?
When I think of pinning down / restraining, a steamy encounter comes into my mind. I had brought to the notice of my partner that I enjoy being fucked rough and raw. I should feel like I am the one who is not in control in bed. I am his fuck toy and he has his way with me. Following night when we were taking a walk on the terrace , his dirty talk and occasional playing with my nipples got be turned on in seconds. Before I knew, he had my hands pinned up above my head and began licking my neck and nibbling my earlobes that was followed by bites. Having the right balance of warmth and pain. His free hand caressed by back and scratched it making me dig my nails onto his back in pleasure.
I was surprised as to how he knew to touch me and scratch me in the right places. My back, my chest and my thighs. Holy shit ! How can I ever forget that feeling when he flattened his wide palm on my tender meaty thighs and grabbed the softness letting me know that this is just the beginning. It left a big, wet spot on my panties. Also the light smell denoting my arousal which was not hidden from him. His probing and fingering got even more intense after that. His lips sucked mine hungrily. He turned me around and tugged onto my hair pulling them and making me wetter. I was thankful he kept his hands near my scalp and not on my ends otherwise that would have been a bit irritating / actually painful. He literally tore off my panties and entered me in a violent lunge. Not having the time to prepare made me put all my faith on him and letting him do whatever he wants with me. He raised one of my leg up to gain better access. The rough thrusts and grabbing. The violent slapping of his balls on my asshole. His mouth sucking and biting on my shoulder leaving hickeys. His words that he wants to make me his bitch and take me whenever he wants drove me crazy. I found myself fucking him back like my life depended on it. It was certainly steamy sexy. I could not wait to share the juicy details with my girlies. When I shared my experience with them , they agreed that they wanted to be in my place. Women love it when sex gets a bit messy but passionate. It should not be predictable. We like being thrown on the bed and spread wide. We like being tossed about in between positions not being asked every time. We like being choked (while being careful to not exert too much pressure lol). We also like being called names during it. That is the only time when being disrespectful is stimulating. So be enthusiastic and do not get into it if you are not willing to. Nobody likes a mundane experience. Be enthusiastic. Be authentic. Grab her. Kiss her hard. Let your eyes and hands speak for you. Not to forget there has to be a safe word that you both know will specify that things need to be slowed down or it is time for a short break. It should be something that you would not say usually during sex.
Anything that works fine with both of you. Some people like using the stoplight sign. The green, yellow and red denoting the continue doing what you doing, wait and abort immediately respectively. The deed is not just about the end result. Enjoy the process. Now that you have the clarity that women do prefer being rough in bed, what are you waiting for ? Take the plunge and indulge in the spine tingling experience.
