Why Many Older Women Dating Younger Men?
His proximity makes my heart race with excitement.
I can almost imagine myself playing with his hair, touching his lips, unbuttoning his shirt, and smelling his skin.
I blink, snapping out of these unholy thoughts…but…
He is sitting right opposite me, smiling his disarming smile.
For God’s sake, he is just 28! A decade younger than me, but his charm admittedly is undeniable.
We are on our second date, at a posh rooftop bar overlooking the city and I am loving the conversation, the vibe, and more importantly the flirting.
We down our third round of drinks, polish off the palatable starters and pay the bill. We head toward the elevator walking through the empty corridor. Suddenly he halts, pulls at my hand, and pushes me against the wall.
“Hey,” I say, surprised.
“Hey,” he says, kissing the hollow of my neck and then my mouth, gentling parting my lips and exploring my mouth with his tongue.
He is gentle yet demanding, flirty yet firm. I can feel his short warm breath on my cheeks and grab his shoulders…
I am not sure if it’s an eternity or just a few moments when we hear approaching voices and pull off….
So the big question is am I ready to take the plunge with a guy who is years younger?
YES! Why not?
No one in a long time has ever made me feel so magical.
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Women dating younger men has always been frowned upon by society. While men dating women several years younger than them is acceptable the expectations are quite reverse for women. However modern women are challenging these norms, claiming their financial and social independence they are not shy to step out of the age-old relationship standards.
Let’s find out why you should consider dating a younger man, as opposed to an older one:
Breaking Age Barriers:
Age ain’t nothing but a number, right? Women are shattering stereotypes and proving that love knows no bounds – whether it’s a few years younger or a few decades older. If there is mutual attraction and genuine connection, why should age even be a factor?
If you feel patronized, loved, and cherished by a younger man, as opposed to being taken for granted in a relationship by an older man then it’s reason enough to choose where your heart leads you.
Better Sexual Compatibility:
He doesn’t understand my needs.
He doesn’t touch me the way he used to.
Can’t remember when was the last time I had an orgasm.
He doesn’t seem to be interested anymore!
Sounds familiar? These are some common issues among women in their thirties and forties- a time they peak their sexual cycle.
Older partners often lack the virility or the enthusiasm to meet their sexual desires. The fun and excitement of sex get lost in a predictability loop.
Younger men on the other hand are more eager to experiment in bed, which can lead to a more fulfilling sexual experience for both partners.
They bring vitality and vigor that may be lacking in older partners, revitalizing the sexual dynamic in the relationship. Additionally, younger men may have fewer inhibitions and less performance pressure, allowing for a more relaxed and enjoyable sexual connection.
Making You Feel More Sexy and Confident :
Being with a younger man can often give you the impetus to dress well, work on your body, be well-groomed, and embrace a life that promotes vitality and confidence.
Imagine this: You’re out with your younger beau, and you can sense envious eyes following you everywhere, as you walk with his arms around you, radiating a magnetic charm that commands attention wherever you go.
Women in their 30s and 40s are naturally evolved and comfortable in their skin. However, being in an uninteresting or stale relationship can take away the confidence about their physical appearance, or the willingness to look and feel good.
Dating a younger man on the other hand, who is appreciative of your feminine appeal will make you feel more confident and make you want to work on your fitness and grooming.
Younger Men Add More Value to The Relationship
Want to go on an impromptu hike? Or a night out with friends? A beach vacation you have been dreaming of for so long?
Chances are a younger partner will jump at these thoughts, can’t say the same for older partners!
Younger men are more open-minded, willing to explore, and value your age and everything that comes with you. They acknowledge your wisdom, and work experience and will admittedly have more interest in what you want to do. They are more physically fit, flexible, dynamic, and ready to embark on adventures.
The No Pressure Partnership
Dating a younger man doesn’t necessarily come with a time tag. If marriage and children are not in the cards right now, who better to partner with than a younger man- who is probably working on his own career?
Unlike societal expectations, that determine an age for marriage and children, being with a younger partner allows you to prioritize personal growth, career aspirations, and individual fulfillment without the pressure to conform to predetermined timelines.
While age may initially spark curiosity or social scrutiny, the foundation of man-woman partnerships stands on pillars of love, companionship, compatibility, and respect.
Older women are drawn to younger partners not solely because of their age, but because of the qualities they bring to the table. Younger men often offer a refreshing perspective, vitality, and a willingness to embrace life’s adventures. They bring energy and enthusiasm to the relationship that complements the wisdom and experience of their older counterparts. Here’s hoping that the older woman-younger man relationships continues to celebrate love on its own terms!
